Monthly Archives: August 2008

Calm, Cool, and Collected to Get Ahead?

I have learned that being frantic and putting a happy face only gets you so far. Why not try being quieter and more of a listener?

Method to Your Marriage?

I want to discuss Ellis’ theory of Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT) as it relates to a happy marriage. Let’s face it, when your marriage is thriving and healthy, it fee…

Q&A With Me at the FuelmyBlog Blog

An interview with yours truly on blogging and historical questions about Postcards is now up at the impressive new Fuelmyblog blog. You’re reading this so you are already reading my bl…

Young Person’s Syndrome and Health Insurance

I remember when I was 18-ish and didn’t think I should be forced to have Health Insurance. By “forced” I mean my employer, then a grocery store, automatically took fees out…

Growing into Your Own Skin

A therapist told me, “The thirties are a time when you grow into your own skin.” and that was healing to me at the time. I had just turned 30 and was seeing her for depression and cogni…

Debt and Peace of Mind

In the field of mental health, there is an important term called “triggers.” These are events or items that bring us to harmful lows of depression or the extremes or rage, mania, d…

One Word Mantras

“How fragile we are.”
Sting
A single word can add value to your life. In college I read that in a book and tried it out. I bought a pack of 3×5″ cards on sale and searched my…

Respect Other People’s Life as Art

“We are all time travelers moving at the speed of exactly 60 minutes per hour.”
-Spider Robinson
Some of us are traveling in limousines, others are at the freeway on-ramp with car…

Acne Got You Down? Be Inspired Again

There are many physical deterrents to a healthy psychology. Acne for many people is a big one. I ran across a website that is an excellent resource if you suffer from the medical and psychologic…