Postcards from the Funny Farm

There comes a time in life when we have done all we can do and the only thing left is to wait through the day to day.  I have a bloggy friend, for example, who has been given her share of lemons and is trying desperately to make lemonade.   What should she do when she’s finished stirring?  Stop, look, and support those around her.  Of course, we should be supportive at all times but sometimes more than others, we have a real opportunity to just support.  In turn, we get a clear perspective.

Another example is that my wife has been taking some real strides in parenting. I am so glad to see the charts she has created for our son and daughters to get them in bed on time and without turmoil. I’ve been helping as much as I can and I really see nothing to add to her new methods, they are wonderful.  So how can I let my wife know I appreciate what she is doing? Support her parenting. I think most spouses want to be respected and supported.  So, when I don’t know what else to do: I can stop, look, and support.

At work, you might be in a position of leadership. If so, offer support to those you lead. If you are not in leadership, offer support to the leader above you. Support her/his ability to lead. You may find these connections become highly valuable to you and your advancement. Most people appreciate support. It’s a very good bet they will notice the support you give.

With your own kids, or your nieces and nephews if you don’t have kids, support their role as students of life. You can turn even adolescent indifference into wonder if you just stay faithful as a supportive force. When you have a bad day, kids can tell. Make sure you show them through their actions that being supportive is possible even when the chips are down.

I’ve heard doctors say that the practice of medicine is just keeping the patient calm while mother nature does the work. You can be something like an “inspiration doctor” simply through support. The way to support varies from person to person but figuring it out is usually not too complicated . Give it a try.  Why not go into today being aware of this.  Don’t miss your chance to be a great force in your world: stop, look, and support.