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Push it to the Sidebar of Life

Wednesday, April 23rd, 2008

One of my favorite songs is the Beatles: “Let it Be.”

When I find myself in times of trouble …
Speaking words of wisdom let it be.

We live in the most “multi-tasking” and multi-demanding society in history. The human mind wasn’t created and hasn’t evolved to handle all the stress and demands in a given day. Give yourself that reminder when you miss a deadline or forget to do something. That feeling when you ears feel hot from your sudden blood pressure rising, just remember that is a normal reaction to an overly complicated and fast paced world. Remember the stuff you did accomplish, chances are those outnumber the failures. The wealthy man goes out and buys a condo hotel, the moderately wealthy rents one, and the poor try to reach peace some other way. In the final analysis however, all walks of man can cope with stress the same way: by setting priorities in direction of goals. Here’s how:

If something in front of you is causing you stress, put it over to the “sidebar.” How many people actually read sidebars when they visit blogs? All those widgets in mine could represent the stuff I don’t find as the most pressing needs. The worries in your life can sit over in your “life sidebar” until you have to address them. I am not talking about procrastination, while they are there you can think about them, even takes steps toward dealing with them. ou should not, however, let them stress you out when you have plenty of stuff you need to address on the front page of your life. Pretty soon, the main page will be archives … the sidebar won’t go anywhere and neither will those far off pressing worries of your life! Question for you: When the heat is on and you are stressing, are you able to put it all aside?

Quick announcement folks: I’ve started a weekly newsletter where you’ll get all the posts of a week delivered to your email and you set the options. I think this is a great read once a week, see what you think!

-Damien


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Professional Evaluation Results

Monday, January 28th, 2008

I wanted to let the blog know that I had my observation and post-conference today. It went very well. I received a passing score in all domains and some very nice things were said about me in the write-up.Okay I can breathe now.

I’m not one to hide fear, I think it helps the world to show your weakness. It helps people more than pretending you are always 100% confident.

You may recall I published an article on BlogCritics this month about the whole process I was going through:

My article on BlogCritics on how to survive and th...

(esp. note my response to the first comment about inequity in some evaluation pr... for teachers … Amidst my optimism it’s important to note my view on that.)

-Damien

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Be Great at What You Do

Thursday, January 3rd, 2008

TrumpAt work we a have a single job to do but everyone knows there is so much more to work than that. For example: 1. Performance evaluations make us anxious, we wonder if we’ll “measure up,” 2. Co-worker dramas of people getting their feelings hurt can put stress on us and alter the decisions we make, and finally, 3. the job at hand is often changing in today’s marketplace, forcing us to be innovators in our chosen fields. There are no simple solutions for these stresses at work. Try as we might, we can’t please everyone all the time. Not withstanding, there is a mindset, or a mantra, that can guide us through the stormy waters when they rise up against us:

“Just be great at what you do.”

clipboardPerformance evaluations are one of the biggest stressors in today’s workplace. With “downsizing” and “restructuring” at an all time high, everyone is worried if they will make the grade. And I can’t lie to you, in my line of work and several people’s I know layoffs are happening, they are real. So what can we do do relieve the anxiety of a performance evaluation? Recite the mantra morning noon and night. When we strive to be great at what we do, bosses notice. It also creates productivity for the bottom line. Envisioning being great changes the fear of the performance evaluation that was once: “Will I lose my job?” to the empowered thinking of: “How can this evaluation make me more great?” Turn fear on its ear and be great at what you do.

gossipCo-worker drama is always lurking around the corner. If you’re a teacher, it’s in the teacher’s lounge. If you’re in business it’s at the water cooler, or down a row of desks. The fact is that wherever you have people, you’re bound to have drama. Sometimes the pull is so strong, you can’t help but get wrapped up in it. Other times you will try so hard to avoid it that your work peers will think you pompous or conceited for not talk to them about the latest “gossip.” The solution to this conundrum? Once again: “Just be great at what you do.” There was a psychological study done in the 70’s where a guy looked up in the middle of Central Park. He was looking at nothing but he never looked down. People would walk by and most looked up with him. This is kind of what will happen when you focus on this mantra. Even if you aren’t clear where you are headed, you know your mantra and people will follow that. Gossipy co-workers will become meaningless and they will respect you as you strive to become great.

Last, being innovative is not always easy. In todays marketplace, the products change as fast as the tool. This is also true in education where learning theories come down the pike faster than you can catch them sometimes. We need defining statement, a rule to help us keep learning, growing, innovating the way we find solutions at work. Don’t get anxious or frustrated, recite the mantra: “Just be great at what you do.” If you focus on how much change you are forced to make, you’ll lose your edge. On the other hand, if you simply focus on being great, the changes in the marketplace will be seen as tools rather than hindrances or “chores.” After all, change is supposed to make us better and our lives easier. Unfortunately it isn’t always seen that way. If you heard there was a way to do what you easier and more productively wouldn’t you do it? So it is with technology and new thought in the 2000’s. Don’t fear the changes, look at it as a set of tools to make you greater.

In conclusion, everyone in their heart wants to be successful. Unfortunately there are a host of forces working all the time against our success. I have addressed only three in this post. successGetting focus is key to weathering the storms at work and for keeping your calm when it looks like your ship is going the hit the rocks. You need to strive to be great at what you do. This will help you get through you performance evaluation with more knowledge, dignity and success. You need to lead your peers by focusing on being great. This will make their gossip evaporate and they will respect you above those who don’t have vision. Last, you need to be an innovator in today’s workplace, there is simply no room for followers anymore. As you see your greatness as the goal, the changes in the workplace will become your tools instead of your stumbling block, like they are for so many. You can be great at what you do, but even if you don’t, many work troubles can be quelled by internalizing the mantra:

“Just be great at what you do.” You’ll like the results.

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