Therapeutic Reverie
Today’s fast paced world leaves us all exhausted at the end of most days. Right now, as an example, I have that woozy feeling I have forgotten an appointment because I didn’t transfer it from my wallet to my Yahoo! calendar. Oh well, if I did I did. I’m pretty good about that usually. Anyway, with life being so fast, as Randy Pausch reminded us all, I think it’s really important to have some therapeutic reverie once in a while. I talk about W.I.N. with my team at work and sometimes, reverie needs to be “what is important now.” One day it may be getting your kid immunized, another it might be to buy pet supplies.
Looking back at life’s seasons and grand events helps us move forward more bravely. When we can see our bio as separate from our now it makes us seem greater than we are, or at least more able. I recommend listing your accomplishments by decades but if you are in your twenties or younger, that’s not much of a filing system. Separate your life into sections you find relevant, but try and do it when you can steal away for some quiet time. You can draw mantras from these for the upcoming year (ie; “I carried my running team by gaining 4 points in the finals”)
Here’s a portion of mine as an example:
Decade 0-10
- I was put into the gifted and talented education program in 2nd grade.
- I wrote “Swimmy the Turtle” and won 2nd place in the state fair in 3rd grade.
- more
Decade 11-20
- I learned every guitar riff The Alarm recorded.
- I got my first job as a printer’s apprentice.
- I trained as a camp counselor and counseled on summer.
Decade 21-30
- I met and recorded with my rock hero Dave Sharp of the Alarm.
- I got a job teaching at 27 in an inner-city school.
- I got my Master’s Degree at age 28.
Decade 31-39
- I got married at 33.
- by 38 I had my third kid and decided that was plenty ;)
- I bought my first mortgaged home at 39 and it has a pool!
If you try it, have fun with it. I suppose if you’re a blogger you might want to consider it like a meme. Please do! Everyone else, just thank goodness you aren’t self-absorbed as we bloggers and do it on a notepad and save to your desktop. It’s therapeutic and an absolute recommendation from me. Can you say “absolute recommendation?” Hmmm. Ok well, regardless, I recommend doing it. Life is good, but it will pass you by if you don’t stop once in a while.






I like this idea of looking at things by decades. I think a lot of people, me included, have gotten into a “day by day” type of thinking. The biggies in life aren’t accomplished in one day…sometimes even in a year. This would make a great meme!
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Thank you for doing this. Because this is my first time here, it was helpful in getting to know you better. It makes for a great MEME. Hmmm…I’ve already entered the fourth decade…my big accomplishment was starting my blog!!! LOL.
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I’ll be there June of this year :)
Gosh, I can’t remember any accomplishments 0-10. I’ve got to go and recover some memories!!
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